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The new weather graphics look amazing. This reminds me of a video where a streamer hears the Stormwind song for the first time.
Well, the pixels on the screen look better. That, and there are more people running around. Taken to the extreme, your criticism can extend to playing IRL and soon you’ll sound like a medieval Hand of Meditation: wealth shall vanish; what thou hast here another shall have…
It’s interesting that there seems to be a “biological minimum” of socialization that is simply required to enjoy an activity. Few would play chess or League all day against bots, but many would against humans, even though there is no actual socializing involved. Similarly, no one would play WoW-Retail if the realm were populated solely by bots, but there is so little socializing that it’s often indistinguishable from bots. Nevertheless, we have to know that there are other players around us.
Yes. I would have a similar reaction to someone making a similar statement about rock climbing or BJJ or golf, if they were obsessed to the point of sinking second-job hours into it one week and the next week quit saying it was pointless.
I always remember the Christopher Moore line that people are happiest when they have someone to look up to, and someone to look down on. In most male hobby spaces, the guys in middle are happiest (in terms of the hobby). They have people better than they are to aspire to reach, and they have people worse than they are to bully or to help.
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