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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 5, 2026

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Admittedly a lazy question but here it goes anyway: in the earlier discussion on this incident that took place here one highlight/moment that was mentioned was that this woman, supposedly already drunk and drugged out of her mind at that point, accepted a proposal from two guys to have a threesome, apparently under the assumption that this will actually entail her getting to watch homo sex happening. I imagine her disappointment contributed to her regretful recollection of that night’s events afterwards. One one hand I think this should be cause for a conversation on the brain-rotting effects of prevalent literary porn consumption among college-educated single women. On the other hand, is this even getting commented on?

LOL, yeah, that was probably the only truly funny part about the whole ordeal, maybe the "we're shutting down whatever the fuck this is" part comes in second. Also solidifies my judgment that she's kind of an idiot. Not necessarily low IQ idiot, but idiot nonetheless.

Not sure it was a key contributing factor, but certainly a sign of how out of touch her fantasies were from reality.

"we're shutting down whatever the fuck this is" part

Another commenter noted that she's supposedly a jacked female bodybuilder. If this is the case I'm guessing the dude who shut it all down did so partially because he was just weirded out by the spectacle.