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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 19, 2026

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Bro I'm gonna be deadass honest with you, there are a lot of freaks who are just gonna hang out in the bathroom and listen to women fart and piss if we don't have separate bathrooms. But if women are cool with that then sure, tear down those walls.

As a resident of a PNW city with a large trans population I'd say the way things are going is many newly constructed spaces have only a gender neutral single shared room with sinks and a mirror and then a series of stalls that have full floor to ceiling walls and wooden locking doors. This is certainly more expensive than "two rooms with plastic dividers around stalls" but it would be difficult to hear anyone fart or pee through the doors (which honestly I appreciate for entirely non gender issues reasons).

I personally welcome the proliferation of single-occupancy bathrooms, as I feel that American-style public restrooms are absolutely barbaric. But there's a challenge here besides cost, especially visible in PNW cities, which have drug users as another large population, which creates a pressure for public spaces to take things the other way.

I've never seen that, the more common adaptation where I live is that all bathrooms have a keypad and you have to enter a numeric code so the door unlocks. You have to ask the staff for the code, and I assume they will not give it to you if you are a visibly disturbed drug user.

I assume they will not give it to you if you are a visibly disturbed drug user.

...resulting in the rest of us having to step around bio-hazardous land-mines on the pavement.

If you're implying that society should be exerting itself for the benefit of the publicly drug-addled...yes, agreed, to the extent that they should be picked off the streets, thrown into the back of a truck, and dumped into the nearest landfill.