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Thanks so much for the thread. I suffered the sadness of reading Freddie's last stack-i had unsubscribed in umbrage at his attempts to allow himself to talk about things but control any attempts for others to bring up contrasting views, but there he was on the recommended tab and speaking about the same issue, with the comments turned off of course...
But really honestly sad. The full nothing to see here routine and didn't mention a single relevant point about child safeguarding that is available for anyone to find out about. Oh yeah, why would I want to question a researcher or a doctor, they know best- in complete contrast to the free wheeling heterodox attitude he has to every other issue he talks about. I mean it must be more than laziness, I doubt his own arguments gave any satisfaction, not really going beyond 'diversity and inclusion' rah, rah. So it must be he's guarding his position on the left, too fearful to see a way through, perhaps he has a close friend he wouldn't want to betray or some personal story. It's beyond credible that he somehow hasn't read that eunuch identity is in the latest wpath guidelines and that surgery options are included for non-binary people (nullification anyone?), oh and they removed any age limits. But yes Freddie, kindness and diversity and what would I know about all that other stuff, I'm just a writer...
Thanks, that was therapeutic...
Was this intended as a reply to @FarNearEverywhere’s thread below? You posted it as a top-level comment.
Yes it was...
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