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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 6, 2023

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Well, and, if we're repeating ourselves,

I think the reason for this performative callousness is precisely the intuition that men who don't cut it in the sexual market are pathetic non-threatening worms (at worst, some outliers will become school shooters or rapists) and can be safely utilized as fuel for minor self-affirmation in glib offhand remarks.

If not for your predictable, inflexible exercise in glib remarks about Chads and incels and shiet, signaling being a higher-status male in an environment where it's a pointless tactic (has anyone ever found a mate through The Motte, or founded a gang?), this would have been an «inflammatory claim without evidence» I guess.

Now that we've established that we both see each other as cringeworthy posers, do you have anything to say on the object level?

Your explanation of my actions evinces a quite poor theory of mind on your part.

Now that we've established that we both see each other as cringeworthy posers, do you have anything to say on the object level?

Sure. I think your analysis of the motivations of the parties involved and the causal forces at work is far too simplistic. Many groups in society have gotten their way by methods other than threatening violence. Similarly the notion that the current crop of young sexually frustrated men would burn down society for not giving them a girlfriend is absurd. Maybe there are some vocal incels/MGTOWs/whatever online that believe something like that but most people, including single sexless men, like society and all the benefits that flow from it. I think a very small percentage (<1) entertain anything like this idea and it will be very difficult for them to convince others to join them.

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Similarly the notion that the current crop of young sexually frustrated men would burn down society for not giving them a girlfriend is absurd.

Why are governments like Ireland's (IIRC) dedicating resources to "incel terrorism," then? Why did the PLO marry off their armed wing that carried out the Munich Massacre?