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PaperclipPerfector  4d ago (text post)   1354 thread views

Wellness Wednesday for October 28, 2026

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I finally convinced my wife to try some strength training. So far, she has refused to do squats (and recreated the "repeat after me" meme in the process), but she did some deadlifts and I enjoyed watching her limp around the flat suffering from delayed onset muscle soreness.

I, on the other hand, should do more pull-ups.

So far, she has refused to do squats.

I assume you already mansplained the "something axial loading... something bone density... something osteoporosis" argument.

Maybe you should emphasize:

  • SQUATOBER™ is a federally registered trademark, so October is officially the month for squats.
  • Using the power of the squat-morning, you are going to challenge her for the household thiccness crown.
  • Forklifts are indispensable in the modern world, and a useful addition to any operation.

"becoming swole as a woman" - "becoming swole as a woman"
"requires serious dedication" - "requires serious dedication"
"and usually anabolic steroids" - "and usually anabolic steroids"
"so let's do some squats with a body bar" - "but I don't want to have big quads!"

From my understanding of the literature, it is possible for women to get bigger quads on a relative basis to themselves and other women, though, of course, they are unlikely to end up with "manly" quadz. From the addendum on sex differences in training:

A recent study by McMahon et al. had men and women train their quads for eight weeks. Physiological cross-sectional area increased by about 23% for men and 30% for women, and knee extension torque increased by about 14% for men and 22% for women. These differences were not significant.

IMO, trained legs look more "toned" and generally aesthetic based on shape, which is arguably more important than absolute size. I do, however, generally prefer a more hip-drahve-oriented squat for general training. I think it both produces a more aesthetic physique and more useful general physical preparedness for becoming a human forklift.

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