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Seeing things like these almost makes me feel sorry for westerners, ... almost.
My personal upbringing taught me to always treat all women with great respect/guard their honour. I was never interested in sleeping around for instance. Shortly after I entered university one of my fellow countrymen who was a few years above me told me that the Western women around me were for having fun with and were not suitable for marriage. He told me that when I was ready for marriage I should bring over a sweet girl from back home. At the time I found the statement to be offensive towards women and was somewhat indignant, for surely (or so I thought) these women were just like those back home but without a strong social norms to guide them and in the end they all wanted the same thing, but over the years with experience I have come to see the wisdom in his words. Western women really aren't worth much more than having fun with.
The problem here isn't women as a whole, but women infested with western brain rot specifically. And Western men played a big part in letting their society get to such a point.
I'm sorry but a "traditional" culture/woman won't save you from a dead bedroom. Evidence? I am from one of those cultures and every kid (other young adults like me) more or less unanimously aggress that their parents never have sex.
The only thing that will save you is if both partners are of solid mental, physical, hormonal and psychological health.
It's one of those things that sounds good but doesn't work, if there is little mutual want for sex in the beginning like many socially enforced marriages, what hope is there to be sex years down the line?
Fair, but western culture significantly reduces the probability someone is of "solid mental, physical, hormonal and psychological health."
Source?
See how rates of mental health issues are significantly higher in the west than elsewhere. And before you say this is due to underreporting elsewhere notice the dose effect relationship between mental illness and how close you are to the "centre" of it all, e.g. see how liberals are more mentally ill than conservatives, women are more mentally ill than men, see here: https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/over-50-percent-white-liberal-women-under-30-mental-health-condition , urban dwellers are more mentally ill than rurals, people now are more mentally ill than people 10 years ago, people in the Anglosphere are more mentally ill than people outside the anglosphere, people outside the anoglosphere who speak English are more mentally ill than people outside the anglosphere who don't etc. (see https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/share-with-mental-or-substance-disorders-by-sex for a graph of mental illness rates for a chart that uses multiple sources/regressions to correct for underdiagnosis). We wouldn't expect to see so many disparate links if it was all due to reporting bias.
Centre of what? The West? Why is that progressive people in Anglophone cities?
Also, the liberal/conservative and male/female differences in neuroticism are cross-cultural, as far as I know.
Why not? These reference classes are also correlated with the medicalisation of mental illness... But then again, medicalisation could be due to a dose-response relationship between progressivism and mental illness! Causality of mental illness is VERY complicated and opaque.
Because Anglos absolutely dominate the culture of other western countries. When was the last time you were forced to conform with some bizzare non-Anglo idea?
Non-anglos speaking English correlate with medicalization of mental illness more than non-anglos not speaking English?
Critical theory and postmodernism are products of France and Germany, and I work in academia, so probably some time today.
However, it's true that Anglos have cultural dominance of progressive media (not so much e.g. what happens in churches) and I think that the fundamental point you are making is conceivable, but nonetheless speculative.
But your hypothesis is not "speaking English causes mental illness", but rather "being exposed to certain Anglophone ideas causes mental illness." One of these Anglophone ideas is progressivism; another is the contemporary conceptions of depression and anxiety, which may have increased reporting rates.
Interestingly, in the case of schizophrenia (which standards apart from depression and anxiety in many ways, e.g. there's no non-pharma way to effectively treat schizophrenia) rates seem to be similar all over the world, and there is no clear Western/non-Western pattern:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epidemiology_of_schizophrenia#By_country
Kind of, but not really.
They got their start in France and Germany, but were further developed in the US, gained traction in the US, are now being exported from the US, and by the time it gets back to France and Germany they don't recognize it. When you see any critical theory or postmodernism pushed in Europe, it's the US version. Often even using the English words for the concepts, either directly or as literal, mechanical translations.
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