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Small-Scale Question Sunday for March 26, 2023

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

This is your opportunity to ask questions. No question too simple or too silly.

Culture war topics are accepted, and proposals for a better intro post are appreciated.

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Ask yourself this, is some sort of abstract sense of "having done something" worth more than real bills in your bank account? Real bills that you can donate to charity, use to help your family, use to help your friends, use to buy your mom gifts? Use to buy your wife things?

Having been presented with similar decisions in life, my answer is, "it depends". I've made plenty of money without doing anything that I think is immoral and I intend to keep it that way. There are jobs that are easier and better paying that I've elected to pass on because I don't think I'd be happy feeling like my money was received by an extractive scam.

That is well and good, but I think it is extremely reckless and self-aggrandizing and myopic and a whole host of other bad things; to tell someone to prioritize their abstract notions of morality which might or might not be well-informed [1] over real money. Which has real potential to make the world better in the desired ways.

Doubling ones salary is no joke.

[1] https://www.themotte.org/post/426/smallscale-question-sunday-for-march-26/79754?context=8#context

If you were someone I knew and posed me this question in real life, my response would be "quit pussyfooting and double your salary before you get slapped, you moron".

That is pretty much what my friends are also telling me lol.

I love the Hajnalbrain cooperatebot expression. And being Turkish, when I read through the experiment I was initially just thinking along the lines of "yeah no if anyone punishes me I fuck them". So I guess not much use fighting my "nature"..

This depends strongly on who you are. I ‘sold out’ for a higher paying job and deeply regret it, caused me a ton of stress and health problems. I’m now taking much less pay for a position with more responsibility and work, but I’m easily 3x happier than I was.

As @Walterodim said above, it really depends on your circumstances and what you value. This could be a good moment to reflect on what you want to accomplish in your life.

Why do you regret it? Because it was stressful and health wrecking or because of something to do with the job content?

A bit of both, it was a service but not a good one. The stress was the bigger issue imo, had a lot of negative spillover into other parts of my life.