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Bible says (or at least heavily implies; it's been a while) "children are property of their parents", extends blessings to children who obey this and execution to those that refuse.
The employee benefit plan of Christianity is mostly rear-loaded; the retirement plan can be accurately described as "out of this world".
Seems pretty cut and dry to me. I'd want to maximize the chance my child takes advantage of it, and we can start by covering up everything that matches the naturally-emergent sin disgust heuristic, starting with a fig leaf on this nude statue over here. Why gouge out one's own eye (a popular and plain-ish, though not necessarily correct, reading of the passage) when you can see no evil by less traumatic means?
Do you mean Psalm 127?
It says that children are a gift from God (specifically, a reward) but that's not the same thing as saying that parents own their children. After all, a fully-grown child is supposed to be as much a gift from God as a child, but you presumably wouldn't say that fully-grown children are the property of their parents!
Why not? Patria potestas and Confucian filial piety are not foreign concepts. The Honor commandment is a heavy burden, not merely one of respect.
Familial duties and owning other people are not the same thing.
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