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According to NPR, 43% of Americans support criminalizing gender-affirming care and 54% oppose it, whereas two years ago, 28% supported it and 65% opposed it. What caused the surge in opposition? Did people just not know what gender-affirming care was two years ago? Did they assume that psychological evaluations of trans kids were more thorough than they actually were?
To say nothing of the vicious logic of delaying it.
Take a kid, maybe he's trans, maybe he's just having some trouble seeing himself as a young man when the other boys are bigger/stronger/rougher than him. Now prevent him from experiencing puberty normally, as the rest of his cohort starts growing beards and joking about hiding erections he will have nothing in common with them. They will be bigger and stronger, he will be smaller and weaker; how is that going to help him return to masculinity? How, exactly, is he going to come back to identifying with his cohort as it leaves him behind? As he becomes more and more different from his cohort, he will sink further and further into the trans identity.
Few desist off of blockers because they don't stand a chance, the slope here is very slippery.
*This can of course be gender reversed quite easily. A 12 year old girl who isn't feeling like one of the girls, isn't going to feel any more feminine when she never grows tits while all her friends do.
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