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It's possible to explain, but an average parent probably would need a specialist support. Only there are no specialists that can support them now - there's woke transing disassembly line on one side, and I guess there's some conservative Christian support options which one probably wouldn't even consider if you aren't already a conservative Christian, and of which I know next to nothing, and so probably the average parent. And in modern Western world, where most people don't have the ingrained reflex of "the system is not your friend, it will hurt you and all you love" - this becomes an easy trap to fall into.
The conservative Christian support options exist, but they’ll start with ‘male and female he created them’ and then call in the TERF’s if they need secular arguments.
It’s probably worth noting that trans kids are specifically a liberal elite phenomenon, and conservative Christian authorities don’t particularly need to put together a set of secular arguments about it because that’s not how conservative Christian youth behave when they experiment with leaving. And honestly, the liberal elite parents are much less likely than average to call a pastor when they’re dealing with a situation- as any catholic priest could tell you, it’s not exactly uncommon for pastors to receive help requests from people who are not religious beyond going to whatever church is closest on Christmas and Easter.
That's my point - for a mildly liberal normie, who still doesn't want their kids life to be sacrificed on the altar of Trans, there's no support system. There are a lot of people like that, in fact majority of the people I know would likely qualify.
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