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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 10, 2023

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Shouldn’t there be a Victorian notion of pure sexless innocent children?

No? South Park is more of a documentary than anyone ever wants to admit to themselves and I'm still trying to figure out why nobody acknowledges this; third grade was a fine time for "I heard she got in trouble for doing lesbian stuff in the bathroom", making tons of dick jokes, and figuring out exactly how flexible the middle finger is when it comes to expressing oneself.

I have reason to believe my experience is typical, and as such I'm still trying to figure out why nobody else remembers this... or is simply motivated not to remember- that was a plausible enough explanation for 10 year old me (having an upbringing , and I have received no evidence suggesting he wasn't correct. Maybe being sophisticated enough to notice this stuff is connected to being able to remember it in the first place, I dunno.

But…what is so bad with me wanting my future 8 year old (only a few years away) to be innocent?

Whose interest do you think that outlook serves and why?

("Only mine, I don't like the aesthetics of my little bundle of joy saying 'suck my balls, you fucking bitch'" is an acceptable and interesting answer.)

  1. You sound like a dude. I’m a dude. I have zero clue how ten year old girls really talked. It wasn’t clear from my post but I have daughters.

  2. There is even a difference between 8 and 10.

  3. I have aesthetic reasons for wanting my daughters to remain innocent but also practical ones that aren’t as relevant for boys.

I have zero clue how ten year old girls really talked.

The answer is "just [as bad as] the boys". Well, not so much on the dick jokes for what should be obvious reasons.

There is even a difference between 8 and 10.

Third grade, however, is not 10.

While that is the time in my life I developed the notion that "adults are forgetting on purpose", the evidence for that view was piling up prior to that.

but also practical ones

Do tell; I'm very curious as to how "knows the words and the specifics" is supposed to translate into "loose virtue/an easy mark".

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