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Well, no. You're right that just saying "False" would get dinged for being low-effort, but he added quite a bit more than that.
That some people are more concise than others, and some people are better writers than others, is indisputably true. And requiring people to sometimes use more words than technically necessary also serves a purpose, in many cases. E.g., "I think Those People are terrible" is an allowable opinion, but you have to use more words than that so you are providing something more reflective and worthwhile to engage with than just how much you hate Those People.
You clearly do not like people talking about things that are of no interest to you, or using more words than you want to read. And well, you've got a really good and easy solution to that: don't read posts that don't interest you.
He added quite a bit of unnecessary words to fluff the length of his post, which is my point.
Then what is the purpose of this forum? What is the purpose of moderation at all? Is the idea of community standard interesting? Is the idea of discussing the way people here use words, and the way they could (likely are) using LLMs to fluff their posts up interesting?
"don't read posts that don't interest you"
Clearly this post does interest me. Clearly most things posted in the CWR interest me. You said the exact same thing to me when you got offended/defensive at my criticism of some girl posting ridiculous surveys the other week, suggesting that I'm disinterested in something because I am critical of it.
No, I am quite interested in the way that people signal things to one another. I think that is essentially core to the culture war, and since this entire thread and raison d'etre for this website is discussion of the culture war, I think it's completely reasonable to talk about the ways in which people wage it.
His words added quite a bit more meaning and content.
To cater to people who are interested in the things we talk about here, even things you are not interested in talking about.
I was neither offended nor defensive. I pointed out that "Why are you talking about things I don't want to talk about it?" is frankly a perverse attitude to take on a discussion forum.
That's fine. Feel free to talk about it. But when you make statements about what people are signaling and what you think is or isn't worthwhile to talk about, your statements may be disagreed with.
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