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Well, I can't do anything about you insisting I'm lying about what I believe.
I'm open to being persuaded on this, but I don't see conspicuous and fantastical gaps.
Implies I am just willfully cherrypicking which facts I believe. Again, I cannot persuade you of my ingenuousness, but there really isn't much point in engaging if your go-to move in any disagreement is "You're lying, you don't actually believe that."
Okay, you find my account implausible. I don't.
Clarify this for me. You seem to be claiming that they are claiming that she physically lifted/moved/forced a kid off his bike and manhandled it out of his possession with brute force.
In the above link (which is their version of events), the only statement I find resembling this is:
I suppose you could read that as "She physically forced a resisting teenager off the bike" (which I agree would be very implausible). Which do you think is more likely: that that is indeed what they meant, that she used her Pregnant Lady Strength to bully them, or that they meant she was pushing the kid on the bike and he got off rather than escalating? Note that this does not make that version of events true, but it does not seem implausible to me.
I mean, we have the video -- it doesn't really look like there'd been any shoving match recently?
Much more likely the dude was hanging around in the general vicinity of the bike but still felt entitled to it -- once he noticed the pregnant woman mounting it he started making a fuss, to which "fuck you, it's not your bike" seems like a New Yorker response with much precedent.
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