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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 5, 2023

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It's hard to wrangle people

Were you expecting it would be easy? Scaling from "do it yourself" to "get your team to do it" is a rare skill.

Sysadmins refuse to help with SAML setups if they don't provide all the information

From their perspective, you are scope creeping. You're asking them to take on more work, and it's not the kind of visible high-impact work that leads to increased compensation or political power. You might solve this by figuring out how to reward the work more, or by increasing the amount of coercion applied to the sysadmins, but it's unlikely the problem is resolved without one or the other.

workstation team are idiots

MBA and project manager assholes who don't know anything

Yeah, intelligence is in short supply. You can try to find some magic pixie dust that lets you hire better, or you can figure out how to factor the work such that it can be productively resolved a few rungs down the IQ ladder. PM types tend to be responsive to systematization -- "I did the X process for Y client and now we're Z% of the way through the flowchart" sounds better than "I did some bespoke work for Y client", even if it's the same work. And IME once you set up the bare bones of a structure, they'll be quick to pick it up and fully develop the process.

this Gen X asshole who always tells me I'm wrong

If this harms productivity, then you have a politically cheap justification to ask him to change. If it doesn't harm productivity, then who cares? Let him be an asshole.

The DEI stuff where completely useless people get promoted into positions they don't understand

Yeah, can't help you there. The US government effectively mandates that you hire unqualified people. If it's any consolation, your competitors are required to do the same.