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I understood the point, but I am not convinced at all that is is actually true.
I didn't ever mention progressives, but everybody knows who are the clowns, right? ;) But it's not exactly what I meant. What I meant is that there are people who are interested in discussing issues, and there are people who are interested in policing other people's behavior, online and offline. That comment was intended to emphasize that I am not interested in the second part, I consider them largely clowns, regardless of their political affiliation (though truth be told, they mostly lean to the left). And if there's a tiny part of them that are not clowns but seriously worry that people may inadvertently and unknowingly cause offense and they would be helpful if they tactfully point it out - this case is not that case. This usage is specific usage in context, and I explained the context and the intent. I do not require your "charity" here - it's not "charity" to not call me a liar and attribute me something that is contrary to my explicitly expressed intent, it's just basic decency, and default expected behavior for which one gets no bonus points.
I talk to them (us) every day, and what I usually find is that they (us) are much less triggered by words - especially taken out of context - than the clown crowd.
When a Nazi talks about 108 countries in a vague manner, both sides are aware that it's a reference to the Jews. Likewise, "clown world" is largely a right-wing word used to condemn liberal/progressive/materialist things.
And I am criticizing your justification. You do not get to handwave away the accuracy of that justification just because you don't want to talk about it.
"Basic decency" is precisely to be charitable. It's the same thing.
You are telling me that you go around and tell those people that they are uncivilized savages who are culturally inferior and don't even speak a proper language, and they don't mind? I'll believe it when I see it.
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I must object to the idea that “policing other people’s behavior” is “mostly lean[ing] to the left.” And that the dominant form of behavior-policing consists of objecting to “triggers.”
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