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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 26, 2023

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https://www.rcgeeks.co.uk/collections/rc-cars-young-teenagers

https://www.very.ie/toys/lego-construction-toys/teen/e/b/11049,22115.end

Enough of them are that toy retailers have designated sections for LEGOs and RC cars intended for teens.

The argument, in a non-cheeky form, is that young children are pushed towards hormone therapies and surgeries, based on their gender non-conformity. This absolutely is happening, and has the blessing of credentialed experts. Are you saying you're ok with that, and it would only be wrong in the literal case of girls playing with trucks being sent straight to the surgeon?

Agreed on both counts, but gender nonconformance =/= gender dysphoria. Numerous people (perhaps even a majority) exhibit some degree of gender nonconformance without ever experiencing any kind of distress about their sex. If you think every instance of gender nonconformance (no matter how banal) is a potential red flag for clinically significant gender dysphoria, for which hormone therapy might be medically indicated - well, that's precisely the kind of concept creep /u/arjin_ferman and I are concerned about! Whatever happened to "tomboys"?

It feels like we're doing "it's not happening, and it's a good thing that it is" in real time.

If dysphoria manifests in young children through gender non-comforming behavior, and hormones and surgeries are beneficial, it seems like the playing with trucks leading to mastectomies example was at worst reductive, but accurate.