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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 26, 2023

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Attempting to shape children's values and worldviews in ways their parents consider abhorrent is not a legitimate goal in a democratic society.

Again, it is inevitable that government will shape children's values and worldviews in ways which some parents will find abhorrent. That might be in school lessons, or books available in libraries, or even in failing to censor TV programs. Negotiating those competing values is what politics is all about. Once again, if labor unions, and Nazis, and Communists, and segregationists, and flat earthers, and Hindu nationalists and Mormons can legitimately lobby schools in an effort to change students' views of their movements, why is there a special rule for LGBTQ people?

Edit: And again, schools are in the business of inculcating values and what values should or should not be inculcated is a subject of political contestation. In a democratic society

everyone gets to make their case about what those values should be. They don't, however, have the right to win, obviously. Hence my initial point that attempting to influence the perception of children towards the LGBT movement, unlike child molestation, is a perfectly legitimate goal in a democratic society.

Again, it is inevitable that government will shape children's values and worldviews in ways which some parents will find abhorrent.

And as long as those parents are a very small minority, that's not a problem. When they start approaching an outright majority, which you are attempting to work around by means of lying to the public about what you're actually doing, problems emerge. Even if they're merely a very large minority, you still have the problem that if they object strongly enough, things break. Democracy survives because people see its survival as conducive to their interests. People value their children very, very highly, and if you force them to choose between their children's wellbeing and democratic institutions, you may not like their choice.

And again, schools are in the business of inculcating values and what values should or should not be inculcated is a subject of political contestation.

We should either arrive at a democratic consensus on what values the schools are going to teach, or we should stop having public schools, and maybe stop having a number of other things too. I reject your assertion of normalcy categorically; no part of this is normal, as evidenced by the long history of lies and secretive behavior on the part of the educators pushing this bullshit. They hide it because they know that if they didn't, people would organize to stop them even quicker. No argument for procedure or norm you can summon will outweigh that simple fact.

And as long as those parents are a very small minority, that's not a problem. When they start approaching an outright majority, which you are attempting to work around by means of lying to the public about what you're actually doing, problems emerge.

I don’t know what any of this has to do with OP's claim, which was that ANY attempt to inculcate sympathy for the LGBTQ movement is somehow illegitimate, regardless of whether they are "lying to the public about what they are doing.

no part of this is normal, as evidenced by the long history of lies and secretive behavior on the part of the educators pushing this bullshit.

You realize, of course, that "educators pushing bullshit" is precisely how everyone describes teaching ideas they disagree with, be it traditional rah-rah patriotism, or "family values", or the "Lost Cause" interpretation of the Civil War, or the Aryan invasion thesis.

They don't, however, have the right to win, obviously.

I think some good-sized portion of LGBT activists think they do have a right to win, actually - their rights are human rights, after all - and have shown a willingness to use extraordinary means to do so. Your "attempting to influence the perception" generalization covers a lot of activity - lying, gaslighting, intimidation, harassment, insubordination - that I would not agree is perfectly legitimate.

I think some good-sized portion of LGBT activists think they do have a right to win, actually

Maybe, but we are talking about my argument, not theirs, right?

Your "attempting to influence the perception" generalization covers a lot of activity - lying, gaslighting, intimidation, harassment, insubordination - that I would not agree is perfectly legitimate.

It was actually not my generalization. It was OP's generalization that ALL such efforts are illegitimate, not merely the subset to which you refer. So it sounds like we both disagree with him.