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...Because there's no religious defense being offered? For all that you want to claim hypocrisy about this, there's a big difference between "a public school that is run to spread controversial messaging to kids as truth" and "a privately run religious school which actively tells you to not do more than study religion all day".
Moreover, you seem to think that I would support the teachers unions but not the Hasidic Jews. You shouldn't assume that about me when I haven't said anything about it.
From the perspective of outcomes, why should it matter?
At least the Hasids aren't making it mandatory to send other people's kids to their schools.
Well make your position known, if you care.
Okay, but I don't only consider the perspective of outcomes, so I think it does matter. The Hasidic Jewish schools in question are not even pretending to care.
Well fine. If we convince them to start pretending to care, at least, will that satisfy you?
They put on a nice little song and dance about trying to fix things and go on doing them the same way, and this is acceptable?
Why would it? I don't want them to pretend, I want them to actually care!
It's one thing if they started caring but then fell into a state of apathy. It's quite another to either not care or just lie about caring.
For that matter, would it satisfy you? Are you okay with ignoring a smaller issue just because it wasn't framed the right way, according to you?
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