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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 3, 2023

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In another type of society ignoring your sexual desire and doing something else might be workable as a last resort, but in a modern welfare state it is for many reasons a humiliating and degrading proposal. It’s well-known that women (at least in Europe) receive far more money from the state through welfare, maternity care and health care than they pay in tax, and that means all tax-paying men inevitably support women with their hard work.

I'm sure Western societies are already close to the point where women pay more than 50% of all taxes.

EDIT: looking back I think it's easy to interpret this comment as feminist or pro-feminist. It was never intended as such.

No, I’m pretty sure that’s closer to 35% (all else being equal); taxes are progressive and they keep claiming they only make 80-85% as much as men do, so we should expect them to contribute correspondingly less to the public coffers.

The wage gap originating from structural sexism is just a claim, nothing more. As far as I can tell, the statistics do not prove it, and judging by current trends in female participation in the workforce and education, I think the time is near when women won't be net tax consumers anymore. I'm not claiming that they will generally like this, of course, but that's another subject. The general situation we'll be in is a somewhat African-style quasi-matriarchy, where even the last vestiges of Christian patriarchy will be gone.