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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 10, 2023

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with none of the risks.

I don't think men really suffer too many of the risks either these days. It's always rather laughable when fairly comfortable young men LARP about men being killed down the mines or on the battlefield; the number of men engaged in genuinely dangerous work grows ever smaller in the West and no American has been drafted for over fifty years. Now, some of the points raised by such people are clearly serious issues; homelessness, crime &c. Yet too many glibly dismiss the serious problems women disproportionately face too, partly because, ironically, so many internet posters live in young, urban, liberal environments.

For half-decent looking women or greater, the world is but a playground for looking cuUuUute—and if hiccups ever occur, they can always play damsel in distress to summon a simp army to do their bidding

This, for instance, just absolutely reeks of terminal online-ness.

Now, some of the points raised by such people are clearly serious issues; homelessness, crime &c. Yet too many glibly dismiss the serious problems women disproportionately face too, partly because, ironically, so many internet posters live in young, urban, liberal environments.

It's perhaps a product of the fact that for any problem that women in particular face, there's likely a large, well-funded organization or government program dedicated to addressing and minimizing it.

Compare how much attention and funding the issue of breast cancer gets (42,000 deaths/year in the U.S.) to, say, prostate cancer (34,700 deaths/year in the U.S.).

Is it 'glibly dismissing' breast cancer as a risk to point out that prostate cancer is causing deaths of the same order of magnitude and thus probably should get similar funding and attention?

This, for instance, just absolutely reeks of terminal online-ness.

Which is different from being incorrect.

And you haven't actually claimed he's incorrect. In fact, by rushing in to to attack him personally for insinuating that women can exploit their attractiveness... you've actually bolstered his point that "they can always play damsel in distress to summon a simp army."

You have literally come rushing to the defense of some theoretical women who aren't actually under attack presently.

It's perhaps a product of the fact that for any problem that women in particular face, there's likely a large, well-funded organization or government program dedicated to addressing and minimizing it.

Just so.

Out of all the journalists killed worldwide in 2021, 11% were women, up from 6% in 2020, the UN’s body for “gender equality and women’s empowerment” wrote in a tweet