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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 24, 2023

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Making oneself attractive to women is not the same as bargaining with a woman. And the hypothetical tall Goldman Sachs guy didn't choose to be tall anyway. As you yourself said, she'll give it away for free to him.

If you know a woman would not consider you attractive if you don't work at Goldman Sachs, so you seek to work at Goldman Sachs, what word would you use to describe you working at Goldman Sachs in relation to that woman and their attraction to you? I like the term 'bargaining chip'.

It might not be verbal, but that woman weighed you as 'attractive' on her scale because of that job. You needed that 'bargaining chip'.

If you know a woman would not consider you attractive if you don't work at Goldman Sachs, so you seek to work at Goldman Sachs, what word would you use to describe you working at Goldman Sachs in relation to that woman and their attraction to you? I like the term 'bargaining chip'.

I like the term "panty dropper".

It might not be verbal, but that woman weighed you as 'attractive' on her scale because of that job. You needed that [panty dropper].

It's still not a bargain. There was no negotiation (nor even offer) and she gets nothing from it. There's no "Hey, schlub, you get a job at Goldman-Sachs and I'll be hot for you". She just IS that way.

The woman decided that you were attractive based on a thing you had to work for. It's not you, it's the thing you worked for that she wants. That was the point. Do you get it?

I get the point, but it's wrong. She doesn't want to be tall nor have the Goldman-Sachs job. Maybe she's a gold-digger (in which case you would be right), but maybe just the whole idea of a guy with a high-status job turns her on; these are different situations.

They're not. You are working towards being high status to get the woman. The relevant context here is the man and what he has to do compared to other men. If you have to work to get what another man does not have to work for you can't consider yourself better than him.

So the bargain is more union vs scabs within genders than between genders. It's pretty obvious slut shaming is anti scab.

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