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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 18, 2023

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My first post here, let me know if am doing something wrong.

Motte, bailey and patriarchy

I have noticed that when feminists talk about the patriarchy they often commit the motte-and-bailey fallacy. Before I continue it is important to note that as far as I know there is no generally accepted definition of patriarchy and how the word is used differs widely even among academics and "experts".

The motte part is a patriarchy theory as used in anthropology and sociology. This part is usually solid and you can use it as evidence that patriarchy is a real thing. Arguments for patriarchy from anthropology and sociology are:

  • Wife and children take husband's name
  • Mothers care for children and do majority of unpaid work while fathers win bread doing the paid work
  • In a relationship the man is on average slightly older than the woman
  • We still use male centric language like "guys", "fireman" and "mankind"
  • In many non-democratic countries men still dominate over women
  • In the past, families or clans were controlled by the father or eldest male
  • Major religions and their gods are male-centric
  • Most top politicians and CEOs are men etc.

The bailey part is a patriarchy theory as used in feminism. This part is much more speculative and authors rarely try to prove it. Arguments for patriarchy from feminism are:

  • Men hold all power while women are excluded from it
  • "Heterosexual sex in our patriarchal society is coercive and degrading to women"
  • If men are disadvantaged it is because "patriarchy hurts men too"
  • Male loneliness and suicide are caused by patriarchy
  • "Patriarchy and capitalism interact together to oppress women"
  • Global warming is caused by patriarchy
  • Misandry is not real because we live in patriarchy etc.

How feminists typically use the motte and bailey fallacy: They make a claim of the bailey type, for instance "men are the majority of homeless because patriarchy hurts men too". When the opponent attacks the bailey and argues that no such patriarchy exists, the feminist will retreat to the motte and reply with "of course patriarchy is real, do you deny that wives take husbands names, do you deny that we still call ourselves 'mankind'?"

The important part of course is that arguments in the bailey part have no direct causal connection to arguments in the motte part.

I think the hidden logic for these types of claims look like this:

  1. Traditional values are unfair to women and morally wrong
  2. Progressive values are fair to women and men and morally correct
  3. Problems in the world are caused by moral failings relating to the "category" of the problem
  4. Therefore the cause of a problem in the "category" of gender must be the result of the strength of immoral values regarding gender in the world.
  5. Because traditional values are in recession and things are getting worse, there must be a secret conspiratorial strength to the traditionalist values, and this is the patriarchy.

This is why patriarchy is hard to define. It can't just be the traditionalist trappings that have managed to remain, because it is something that needs to be in power right now manipulating society.

So I'd argue that rather agreeing with that the patriarchy exists, instead argue that it is a tool used to avoid the reality that traditionalist values can't possibly be the engine causing the problems of the western world today because it is just too weak.

In Derrida's Deconstructionist school of literary criticism that these kinds of Post-Modernist philosophies are based on, any categorizing or distinction between things is, itself, oppression. The very fact we think men and women are beings worthy of distinction is the root of oppression and we can never have true equality as long as we can think them distinct. So it is the deconstructionist critics job to instead try to paint the supposed inferior party as really superior, using the oppressors own words against them, so as to deconstruct the oppressive structures that have been created. The existence of these structures is again self evident from the fact we are even drawing different categories (people well versed in literary criticism and philosophy would find this obvious and you should as well if you know anything at all /s).

Well I think I mean categorization in a different way than what you describe. I'm aware of what you're talking about but I am thinking of the way progressives tend to isolate problems into categories and define immoral antagonists for each. Gender issues are cause by patriarchy, race issues by whiteness, economy issues by capitalists, etc.

They don't consider that (1) good intentions or moral behavior (defined by them) can have negative consequences and that (2) bad things can happen because of things outside the category that they have defined them in. That is, the idea that men were hurt because we sold jobs overseas doesn't make sense to them, because it's a gender issue with an economic cause. It must really have been the patriarchy at the root of the issue, because that's the only thing that can cause gender issues, since the patriarchy is the antagonist of the gender category.

They will then just claim patriarchy is caused by capitalism and capitalism is caused by patriarchy. It's all word games to them. The real world doesn't exist and this has been proven philosophically, so they have no need to deal with empirics, except when it suits them. You can't force them to believe anything, so you can't win if they don't let you.