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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 25, 2023

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...Isn't this just reimplementing monarchy with extra steps? The liberal thing is supposed to be figuring out how to run things on rules, but the rules don't work so we get "I know it when I see it", but that just hands power to an "I"; what's the difference between "I know it when I see it" and "‘L’etat c’est moi’"?

I knew there was a reason I didn't trust NrX...

I have been to night clubs where they obviously wanted to limit the number of straight regular white men, but this is in a country where face checks are just not a thing and would really enrage people. So they put an alt black female security at the door who would have a short chat with you at the door asking questions like "what does tolerance mean to you". Unless you really believe all the bromides (or you have an autistic level of cynical knowledge of social justice thinking like me and my friends), it is very difficult to give a fake correct answer.

Figuring out how to run things on rules works when you have a unified culture where people interpret the rules in the same way, but fails when that ceases to be true.

Maybe I’ve misunderstood but haven’t you said the same many times?

In the absence of a shared understanding, the reification of a local or federal “I” is the only alternative to full anarchy.

Quite.