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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 25, 2023

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lighthearted cs drama

The grace hopper conference is supposed to be for women and gender minorities. Since they have recruiters there, the job market is tight, and there's no explicit policy against men showing up, men have been showing up. It looks like a lot of people are unhappy about this. The csmajors sub banned discussion of it, but there are still plenty of juicy threads up; in addition to the gender wars, a lot of the guys being international students adds a 'they're taking our jobs' flair to the fire. Since it's basically impossible to gatekeep nonbinary-ness, the challenge for the organizers, if they choose to accept it, is to weed out the men without being accused of being TERFs.

This is hilarious because the narrative is that women are discriminated against in hiring for CS jobs but the men are going to women's conferences because that's where the jobs are easiest to get. Honestly, there's really nothing to say at this point. This is just how it is now and while I'd like it to change I'm just one person going up against massive institutions who smear your character for dissent. And the only people who would be sympathetic to my cause are people I really wouldn't want to be associated with either.

And the only people who would be sympathetic to my cause are people I really wouldn't want to be associated with either.

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