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Small-Scale Question Sunday for November 26, 2023

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

This is your opportunity to ask questions. No question too simple or too silly.

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I have an old and very good buddy with some extremely unsavory politics that have only gotten worse over the years. This has affected my life/our friendship virtually not at all, but they're about to move back to our hometown because they've just been hired as a da/pd.

I'm frankly unsettled, and looking for advice. They are quite open about their politics - the da/pd's office hired them because of their politics not in spite of them. It's one thing to 'know' the da/pd offices are hiring proud marxists who openly cheer whenever someone white suffers, it's another thing to know your local da/pd offices have just hired your buddy who you know is like that.

Is it weird that my first thought was to move somewhere else? What would you do in my situation?

It's pretty hard for me to say a first thought is weird, per se. So long as you realize that it's probably not worth moving over.

Compared to a garden-variety moderate, is your friend going to do their job differently?

Yes. I probably should have mentioned they're currently a da/pd in a different county and they've spoken at length about how their politics directly affects their job