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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 4, 2023

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Imagine a creature that, while married to Ana de Armas, would empty his shared savings account, and sink into bankruptcy in order to pay Lizzo to ravage him [2].

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[2] Yes, I’m aware that in our current context, the ‘creature’ is more likely to be female. I just needed to use Lizzo here for the clicks.

I'm confused. As far as I can tell Armas and Lizzo are both straight. Armas is married to a man and Lizzo is dating one. Why would the "creature" be more likely to be female?

My political journey began on the left. Every once in a while, I catch myself trying to rewrite the story of one thing or another that I believed so as to make it more palatable to the person I now am. But there is one story I’ll never have to rewrite. It’s the story of seeing a ‘letter box’ for the first time, and knowing it does not belong here. And it’s the certainty that those that would bring it here do not belong in power anywhere.

What is wrong with letter boxes?

More generally I feel like this post could do with a good deal less euphemism or metaphor and a good deal more actual argument.

It's a picture in his Substack. 'Letter box' means 'woman wearing a niqab'.

'Letter box' means 'woman wearing a niqab'.

Ah, I wondered about that! I too was going "letter box? what's wrong with that? does he mean this? or this?"