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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 1, 2024

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Some hard-core of people exist who, for whatever reason, will always want to transition to living as the opposite sex and will be happier if they do so; but there also exist today people who transition for reasons of social contagion or to take advantage of policies, who would be happier living as their birth-sex.

I found this Tumblr screencap a while back, it stuck in my head, and then it turned up again recently:

i went to go pick up my HORMONES from the chemist today and the guy was quite sweet and very well intentioned but clearly way out of his element... when i was leaving i did the standard "thanks have a nice night" and he responded with "you too enjoy your... (very very quietly obviously realising what he was saying was highly insane) gender..." and tbh i haven't stopped thinking abt being a gender enjoyer since

For me, that's a useful way to view matters. Is a given person a gender enjoyer? Or someone who isn't enjoying anything?

I honestly have no idea what meaning I'm supposed to be drawing from that story.

I am not surprised that the author fancied themselves mischievous and fun to be around after that exchange. Certainly no longer a "failed male" as I expect many transwomen often slotted themselves as.

I know I would have found the conversation delicious, were I on the recieving end of it.