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So this really happened, it's not a parody thing?
Okay, two points: (1) I had no idea this woman could actually play any instrument, all I knew of her so far was that she is a fat rapper? singer? who does lots of 'sexy' photoshoots, so good job there, pleasantly surprised (2) who the heck thought that letting her do a performance with a crystal flute was a good idea? Suppose she dropped it? This is not something you can just go "oops" about.
I have no idea what the point of all this was; if it's for the historical musical instruments lot to show that they are "down with the kids", I don't think any Lizzo fans are going to be inspired to visit the museum. For her, I guess it's some sort of free publicity? No idea.
Although I have now learned that there is such a thing as a historical crystal flute so there is that, I guess 😁
To be fair, this is a respectable skill level, albeit not exactly virtuoso, and at least moderately professional in attire. I doubt any average Joe doing the same would get the same opportunity, but it's not the parody, either.
There's a risk of damage, but there's a pretty serious risk in anything happening ever. And playing a flute isn't exactly art restoration when it comes to likelihood of risk.
That's the performance I saw, at the museum itself. That she is able to play that instrument was a pleasant surprise, I had no idea she had that much ability at all. I still don't think letting her play it onstage was a good idea, with all the best will in the world, her hands get sweaty under the lights, her grip slips, and oops. A very expensive pile of sweeping up.
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The historical musical instruments lot are probably woke enough to think ‘having an obese black woman twerk with their priceless(literally) historical artifact’ is a good in itself.
I still don’t know what’s woke about twerking, but it’s apparently important.
Oh, I couldn't tell you. First, I had no idea what twerking was. Then, I saw online outrage about white women twerking and this was cultural appropriation and they shouldn't do it. Now, She-Hulk (who is a white actress) has twerked in an episode where she's doing her lawyer job and she's doing this in her office, but all glass panels so you can see, with a client (played by someone called Megan Thee Stallion, again a name I don't recognise). So now it's okay for white women to twerk?
I have no idea, the last dance that was culturally relevant to my age and experience was punk rock pogoing (not that I ever pogoed myself, you understand).
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I think the point of the whole thing is supposed to be something like 'fat black women doing overtly sexual stuff is high culture now, disapproving of & criticizing this is low-status'
Twerking especially is to be understood as a cultural phenomenon akin to (and aesthetically equal to) ballet or opera.
Seems woke to me.
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