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The triumph of the blank slate
i recently was in a seminar discussing fixed versus growth mindsets, and it was argued that believing in any innate/genetic component of intelligence was connected to a 'fixed' mindset. we were discouraged from using the idea of 'talent' as it implied that some people were just naturally better at some things than others. it seems like a core part of the 'diversity, equity, and inclusion' mantra that is finding its way everywhere - the idea of innate difference is anathema to the principle behind caring about equity versus equality.
I just thought of this now after coming back to your post...
but if women are just as strong as men, why do they need protection from rapists? Why can't they just fight back?
Jarring question, but I think it reveals one example of how the disattachment from reality can have unforeseen consequences.
Reality is that which, when you stop belieiving in it, doesn't go away.
If men are naturally stronger than women, why is female-on-male rape a problem at all?
The answers to that question should give you the answers to your question as well. Further, given that the article is talking about a competitive context and not in averages, I think it's easy to see why your question misses the point a bit.
Technically, in most Western countries, it is nigh impossible for a woman to legally rape a man.
In the USA, a woman can drug you, tie you up, and force you to have sex with her, but the FBI only considers it rape if she penetrates your anus.
Similar in UK and India.
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