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To what extent should we protect patients from themselves? Two things happened this week that had me considering this again.
One, some discussion on medical reddit popped up about how to handle people (chiefly young women) requesting sterilization at a young age especially prior to having children. This has obvious implications for regret and forcing people to be locked in to insufficiently considered choices.
Two I was talking to a friend who was complaining about a side effect of laser eye surgery and she said she was not told about the possibility. In talking to her she was very clearly told about the possibility of this side effect but simply didn't get it.
This is not uncommon. Either surgeons half ass the consent process, or patients just completely fail to understand and fully grok what we tell them. Generally both.
A different example - I've had the conversation "X problem is gone because of your medication, if you stop your medication X problem will come back" "okay doc I'm here to complain about X problem, I stopped my medication" a million times. Including with smart and highly educated people. People often don't understand what is told to them and that can include things like life altering surgery.
What do we do with this? Do we let people make mistakes? Where do we draw the line?
This topic comes up very frequently in medicine but the discussion quality is generally very poor "protect them from themselves unless they want such and such political topic in which case sterilize them at their request with no counseling etc etc." I think this community may have something more interesting to say.
I especially don't know how to handle this given the tendency to strongly protect autonomy in some areas but not others.
More general CW implications include the usual trans problem, but also "protecting people from themselves instead of the more specific patients.
The legalese consent forms doctors go over with patients are a joke.
My wife also recently had laser eye surgery, and had to go through signing dozens of pages that describe the complications. Of course the doctor went over with her at a high level what the forms meant, and she didn't read them, and just signed anyways.
I really wish that we could just sane 1 paragraph (or even better bullet point) list consent forms for everything, not just medicine.
lol, i did mine in Mexico. Doctor just told me in broken English that "there are some small risks" and shook my hands. We worked it out. Everything went great.
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