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So cramming lines is certainly a little weird, but the attitudes I'm thinking of are more to do with what your goals are, what you're trying to do.
If you want to get laid as much as possible, with the most attractive women, then yeah, I expect cold approach in nightclubs is the way to go. If that's you, then great!
I think sometimes guys without much experience assume that must be what they want, and then they get it, at least a little, and it turns out not to make them happy.
The reason I like Models is that it pretty explicitly says the goal is to be yourself, to have fun. I can't say my clubbing experiences ever lived up to that, but maybe I didn't give it enough of a chance?
Yeah, cold approach is what made me not hate women. I was bitter because I would never get any to ever like me but when I started talking to many, I realised that they would feel what's inside and me, that being happier is better.
It's a skill and you get better at it if you keep trying.
I'm a novice still but can't wait to try this in nightclubs at a big city lol.
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Have you ever been on party drugs? I always found events very boring and fake until I tried. Then everything suddenly started making sense.
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