BANNED USER: Ban evading alt created to be an asshole
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User ID: 3840
Banned by: @Amadan
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3mo ago
The word "partner" is a whole can of worms I will lovingly save for some other time, but I need to clarify something: I want me to be the sex object. There are only two kinds of objects in a relationship, a sex object or a resource object, and I can't stand being the latter one. And "personality" is a kind of a resource, perhaps the most humiliating one, a speculative investment instrument for resources of a more material kind.
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3mo ago
Difficulties, frustrations, defeats. If you want specifics, tough luck, I haven't been in a serious relationship in years, because fuck that noise.
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3mo ago
I respond with something negative, she thinks less of me, repeat X times, the relationship is done.
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3mo ago
If a vampire and a thrall both report being happier in this arrangement, are both lying? Why are they choosing this?
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3mo ago
When it's an every day question where you can't win and can only lose, rarely catastrophically and frequently marginally, then the purpose of that interrogation is what it does. No sex object has ever been asked about how their day has been.
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3mo ago
I think one problem with relying on TRP for advice about women is that the community is subject to evaporative cooling.
I can't see when the sub was created, but the years I'm talking about were near its beginnings.
Surely it would make sense to take advice from the men who have succeeded, i.e. the happily married ones?
I believe a man that his marriage is happy as much as I believe a hostage saying that his captors treat him excellently.
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3mo ago
Multiply that by frequency.
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3mo ago
It's in the aggregate, where the best possible result is maintaining the status quo, and the likely result is a downgrade. Those add up.
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3mo ago
/r/theredpill, /r/purplepilldebate, and the tale of Henry of the Radicalizing the Romanceless fame.
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3mo ago
women talking the ears off men about Karen
But this is not what I responded to. Back in the day I found being asked about my day particularly dangerous and/or demeaning. Listening about hers is merely annoying.
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3mo ago
No, many years ago I turned to the internet to understand why the consequences of honestly answering were so disastrous. I found the answers convincing.
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3mo ago
Much like how a Stasi officer asking what you've been reading is looking for literary recommendations.
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3mo ago
wants to listen to how their day went
Absolutely fucking not. This question is either a shit test, or a continuing assessment of the beta bux potential. I wish back when I had or was anything I had a lover who explicitly didn't give a damn about how my day went.
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4mo ago
A bathroom of another apartment and its owner, respectively. I can't summon any energy to go find out who that would be and how to get in touch. What's one more failure in the pile.
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4mo ago
There are water drops in the bathroom of my apartment from the ceiling. This might unironically lead to my suicide as the last straw of my downwards mobility.
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4mo ago
The main thrust is that "at least on occasion" is pathetically bad and is not a refutation of anything.
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4mo ago
You are not autistic to require clarification of the lack of explicit payment, so I can't see any good faith reading of your reply.
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4mo ago
Great guess, Akinator. In fact, it was linked here years ago and stuck in my mind for some reason.
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4mo ago
The music video which inspired the question had it still inside the city, but a lesser populated industrial area to my eyes.
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4mo ago
at least on occasion
You really, actually, genuinely have no idea of male sexuality, do you? If a man can't reliably have at least two different partners in the same day, that man is a failure.
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4mo ago
Imagine you're in a wrong bank at a wrong time, and you get taken as a hostage while a heist crew tries to escape with the cash / bearer bonds / gold bars. One by one they are taken out by the police or by in-fighting, until the last one perishes in a car wreck that leaves you alone with a goodie duffel bag in a crashed vehicle. What is the best course of action to keep the stolen valuables to yourself?
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4mo ago
I used somewhat more than 6 words, but it was nothing beyond a question what my mother tongue likely is. ChatGPT 5.2 The-Unthinking got it right.
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4mo ago
I just had a real Amelia moment, when a UK lesbian threatened me with a visit from authorities in the next week from my IP address (she didn't have it) for my thoughtcrimes.
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5mo ago
I expected LLMs to be good at categorizing freeform but mostly predictable responses like feedback forms and open-ended poll questions. But my naive attempt at dumping a spreadsheet with a few hundred such answers into an LLM ended with the narrowest categories possible, where all it managed to group together were the most obvious synonyms or the closest permutations of the word order, and without any counts to boot. My second attempt included giving it examples of how broad the categories should be, but then it used only those example categories and undercounted half of total entries, I didn't even bother checking the numbers of specific categories. At that point I decided not to waste time. In the future, any tips how on how to make one accomplish this task?
I posit that married life is misery for men, so I don't see prolonging it as a benefit. I surely haven't seen any marriage in real life where I know any details about it and think: gosh, if only I could swap places with him!
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