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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 12, 2025

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But I’m sympathetic to your worries, and hope you find a woman who allows you to lay them aside.

I'M not the one you have to worry about.

The Zoomers are not okay.

And the women are not happy.

Your platitudes appear to be missing something LARGE, and it really isn't explained by men being inadequately reliable.

It’s entirely possible that the women are unhappy because gen Z guys(I won’t get into the discussion of what qualifies as a man) are inadequate and that their standards are either very reasonable or only slightly high. Porn and gambling addictions, for example, are much more widespread in this generation than in the previous ones, and male employment is often less stable.

Its MORE likely that Gen Z guys are "inadequate" because

A) They've grown up in a society that both teaches them they're worthless AND that women are inherently better than them. (also gives them almost no real 'purpose' to contribute to)

B) The women they interact with have ALSO ingested that same message, and will reinforce it to those men.

C) There's literally no reward for resisting this message, and fewer women are worth BECOMING adequate for.

I dunno, I think that's the basic causal situation. There's literally no other way you can spin it.

Porn and gambling addictions, for example, are much more widespread in this generation than in the previous ones, and male employment is often less stable.

And this just swept up young guys on its own? A bunch of guys just UNILATERALLY, for no reason whatsoever, decided not to become worthy? Just like that?

Why?

The end result being that women are unhappy seems incidental to the devaluation of masculinity.

C) There's literally no reward for resisting this message, and fewer women are worth BECOMING adequate for.

"What's the reward for passing the years grinding hard and working on yourself?"

"If you're lucky, maybe one day you'll meet a girl who'll settle down with you after she's had her fun."

"What's the reward for passing the years gooning and goombling?"

"If you're lucky, maybe one day you'll meet a girl who'll settle down with you after she's had her fun."

"Well then..."

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