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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 26, 2025

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How many marriageable and marriage minded men are there?

At least twice as many as there are marriageable and marriage-minded women are out there.

That's my bet.

Women have much much less agency than men and pressuring them to enact major social changes is essentially pointless; men act, women are and all that.

Except most cultural institutions and pressure are actively PREVENTING men from 'acting' and punishing them for doing so.

So we're still hitting the same problem.

At least twice as many as there are marriageable and marriage-minded women are out there.

Well yeah, if every guy from twenty to eighty is only willing to marry a woman aged twenty to twenty-nine, there's gonna be a shortage of Jills for every Jack.

I wonder. Your engagement here, and especially about the age thing, does sound bitter. But I think you were the asexual one, no?

It doesn't sound so much bitter as sarcastic. Ah, yes, someone has run the numbers on heavily selected women 20 - 30 vs much less selected men 20 - 40, and found that there are more men. Shocking. Who could have guessed?

It doesn't sound so much bitter as sarcastic.

This one yes. Theres another, which you dont see easily but she would know. I replied to this one because it was the second one I saw. Though I somehow thought that other one was in direct response to someone talking about the difficulties of children over 30.

But I think you were the asexual one, no?

I believe he describes himself as ex-gay (but that he has "never been a sodomite").

Well then men should overcome that.

And your average man is a porn addict, which it's at least as reasonable to be worried about as a woman's body count, so I kinda doubt that there's twice as many as reasonable marriage minded women.