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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 26, 2025

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Less boo outgroup, more a total lack of insecurity concerning my beliefs, at least on this anonymous forum.

A rebuttal is much more welcome than accusations of rule-breaking. Refer me to Amadan via the report button if you don't plan to add anything.

Edit: look I changed a word for you. Based on your profile it seems like your specific thing is that you're religious. The zeal of a convert, perhaps? Sometimes I wish I had found Christianity as an adult myself. I mean you no offense.

The report button goes to all the mods, not just me. I do not make all mod decisions, I just tend to be the most visible.

As for your post, well, kind of borderline. "Something has to be a little bit wrong aberrant with you to be a conservative in a time when their sentiments are flatly unwelcome at our various employers' pride networking corporate events." On one level, I get what you are saying, that someone who is publicly signaling opposition is probably a confrontational sort of personality and maybe looking for a fight? But phrased as if there is something inherently wrong or "aberrant" about being a conservative, it is not surprising you got peoples' backs up.

Otoh, @ThomasdelVasto saying:

Why does it seem like so many conservatives in the public eye are degenerate perverts? Lord have mercy on this wicked generation.

is hardly more conducive to a respectful exchange of ideas with people who do not share your ideology.

I don't think either post merits modding, but neither of you have much room to be complaining.

I appreciate you chiming in, and I apologize if I came off as complaining or if you felt as though you were being dragged into the discussion.

I was using synecdoche to refer to the mod team, yes.

The irony is that Thomas and I probably agree on a great number of issues, but he didn’t like my specific examples of potential low-agreeableness groups (some of which I am a part!) and unfortunately appears to have stopped reading.

Heard! Thanks for letting me know. I'll tone it down.