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Maybe it's a boy scouts thing, but I see a drag show for kids more like a Summer Camp skit gone too far than anything about LGBT rights or whatever. Frankly, I could see having boys and girls dress up as and mock each other as stereotypes being a very normal, traditional activity.
Well, there's the famous kid Desmond Is Amazing, who was out there as a Drag Kid performing in shows aged 10, having first been noticed at the NYC Pride Parade when he was 8.
He (or rather they, the pronoun they now go by) is 15 now, which is at least a bit older. A true veteran of the scene at that age. May God have mercy on all our souls.
This is not harmless playing dress-up or the kind of cross-dressing for things like Hallowe'en which were traditional practices. I have to think that the parents (or at least the mother) was heavily involved in encouraging the kid along this path and bringing him out to these kinds of events and arranging the publicity around it. I would indeed be more inclined to call it pimping, but if grooming is forbidden, I suppose that is even worse.
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See also: Rudy Giuliani and Trump.
Culture is weird.
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