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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 28, 2022

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Lebron and Kyrie won a ring together. If you watched the series that year, it was so important to Lebron to bring that championship to his hometown team. He left his heart out on the floor every single night against the 73 win warriors. And without Kyrie it wouldn't have happened, Cleveland would still be waiting, Cleveland sports fans would be hoping that whoremonger on the browns would break the drought.

So rather than criticize the hypocrisy, I want to celebrate the loyalty. Kyrie is his friend, and he's going to stand by him. If you offered me irrefutable evidence that my friend or my brother did something wrong, I'd tell you black is white and up is down in public before I'd criticize them.

I find the opposite tendency, where former friends and colleagues drop a cancelled guy like a hot potato as soon as the accusations come out, cowardly and inhuman, unworthy of a celebrity. So let's pass over this one, or celebrate the loyalty.

Loyalty is one thing (eg Kyrie messed up but he is a good dude). But proactively trying to shit on someone else due to loyalty when said other person wasn’t relevant to the story?

It’s also a pattern for Lebron to only care about social issues that impact black people (eg sided with PRC)

My firm had a me too incident. I stood by my friend who was accused (I don’t believe he did everything he was accused of; I do think he asked for sex but that’s it). But I didn’t try to shift the conversation by hurting others. Instead I said “X made a mistake but he also does a lot of good.”

I get where you're coming from, and good on you for sticking by your buddy, but Jerry Jones is a lizard person so he can't be hurt, and Lebron can't hurt him any more than Dak Prescott already has anyway.

I kid, I kid.

I guess. Sterling was brought down due to racism.