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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 16, 2025

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More to the point, there really, legitimately are lots of people who, when it comes to abortion specifically, do not think there’s a possible case of abortion that is morally wrong. Relatively recently, in Louisiana, there was a case of a young woman who wanted to keep her pregnancy and was deceived by her mother into taking an abortion pill ordered from out of state. The pro-choice crowd did not seem to respect this young lady’s choice to keep her baby- including the governor of New York, from which this abortion pill came.

This is like trying to hold a gun store owner responsible when someone buys a gun and uses it to commit a crime. Everyone knows the real agenda here is that you don't want anyone getting abortion pills period.

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Everyone knows the real agenda here is that you don't want anyone getting abortion pills period.

Avoid consensus-building phrases like "everyone knows," as well as presuming you know the other person's motives. You are probably correct that @hydroacetylene does not want anyone getting abortion pills, but you need to actually engage with him ("Are you saying...?" or "I think your actual agenda is...") rather than simply asserting it in this antagonistic fashion. This is a pattern you're unfortunately engaging in a lot. I hate to see it, because here you are a leftie on a mostly anti-left forum (you aren't wrong about that, though you are wrong about "far right"), and you are of course being heavily downvoted and reported for having unpopular opinions. The usual failure mode from here is you get more and more frustrated and antagonized by everyone telling you off, and eventually the warnings accumulate and you get banned. I realize this is a hard pattern to break out of, and maybe it's not entirely fair, but I will tell you that rightie posters that start taking the same attitude you do to all comers who argue with them also wind up getting banned because they just can't stay calm and gracious enough while arguing with people whose opinions they clearly do not respect.

Everyone knows

Consensus building

the real agenda here is that you don't want

So you're a mind-reader? You're not going to engage with the argument being made, but only with what you think the "real" position is?

Plainly uncharitable.

I understand that you probably don’t want a poor black teenager to keep her baby either. But it is utterly uncontroversial that gun store owners taking advantage of differing state laws to fetch a premium for some light law breaking are treated as professional criminals, which is the actual equivalency. A California resident can drive to Nevada, buy illegally-full-size magazines, and probably get away with it when he drives back with them. A Nevada gun store owner who sells such magazines by mail to Californians is committing a crime.

Glad we agree the underlying issue is that you don't want anyone in Louisiana to have access to abortion pills and I do. The governor of NY agrees with me, thus she is not extraditing the doctor, as is her right.

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