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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 5, 2022

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Somewhere downthread, or perhaps last week, conversion therapy was described as akin to the Ludovico treatment from A Clockwork Orange. Let's say that this assessment is plausible. Why hasn't an effective version been developed for some (not necessarily gay male) sexual preferences? Surely there is no shortage of adults who would like to reprogram themselves but lack the means to do so.

I agree. According to this study on identical twins, the concordance of homosexuality is in the ballpark of 65%. There may be some environmental factor there. For me it is interesting that we now have a situation where biological sex is supposed to be fluid and sexuality is supposed to be ingrained and outside of being able to be changed.

If there is no such thing as having the wrong sexuality for one's body, it does not look like a contradiction or "interesting" to me that attempts to change it are akin to conditioning a dog to flinch when it sees its formerly favorite treats.

Sure, it is not “wrong” to have certain sexuality, similarly how it is not inherently wrong to be certain sex. The left is all about individual power and choice - if somebody wants to become straight or gay, why not explore ways how to do it? They are willing to do it for the sake of sex/gender.

I would like to see the reactions of various groups if the left one day said "you know what? fine, sexuality is a choice, and we're going to give children a choice to go to a straight->gay conversion camp, complete with all the features of gay->straight conversion camps".

Judging by the latest veritas leaks re. passing out butt plugs in LGBT class, I think that's just called "school" now.

Not any more than handing out condoms in school is "straight conversion camp". After all, condoms primarily serve heterosexual couples by acting as birth control (pregnancy is the most common STD by orders of magnitude). And yet, I don't see any progressives complaining about that blatant bias.

Edit: now that I think about it, I can remember a few examples of schools that allegedly functioned as de facto gay conversion camps. British boarding schools 100 years ago, to be exact. Maybe they still are.

Given the prevalence of female birth control (every sexually active girl I knew in middle school was already on it), condoms mostly serve to avoid STDs, and the messaging seems to have changed to focus on that

Pregnancy is not the most common STD unless you include intentional pregnancy, which certainly shouldn't be counted as a disease. There are like 10 people with an STD for every 1 teen pregnancy.

"Are"? Well, in that case I'd thank the condoms for that. I assume those who are conscientous enough to wrap it would also be less susceptible to catching STDs even without condoms.

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