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Is the man in suspenders a slender, bearded twenty-something man from Brooklyn, or an overweight septuagenarian?
Whoa, you must have some problematic associations with suspenders! I hope you feel sorry.
I don't know that I've ever seen anyone wear them seriously except for Amish, my dad, and the only lesbian in my class when she went to a school dance once.
Old farts wear them. They’re pretty common in little-boy church clothes type outfits- you know, the ones moms think are cute on toddlers for the five minutes before they get ruined.
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The most common suspender wearers that I see are older guys who have put on enough weight and lost enough muscle that belts don't properly hold up their pants anymore.
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For me, it's condescending Unix users.
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They are associated with hipsters (the "slender, bearded twenty-something man from Brooklyn", though I might note that while the hipster lives in Brooklyn he's probably not from there), and fat old guys from the South. Also, not mentioned, lumberjacks. The hipsters wear them ironically because they do everything ironically, and the other groups wear them seriously.
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I instinctively pictured the boss from Office Space.
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