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These LLMs are not like an alien intelligence, an independent form of intelligence. They consist of amalgated quora answers. They’re very good parrots, they can do poetry and play chess, they have prodigious memory, but they’re still our pet cyborg-parrots. Not just created by, but derived from, our form of intelligence.
The point is, when you go to the warmest and most empathetic quora answers, you get a woman on the other side. Obviously the answer is going to be less correct.
Write like everyone is part of the conversation and you want them to be included in it.
I want women to be included in the conversation.
Look for the particularly warm and empathetic quora answers. Imagine the person who wrote it, but don’t describe them, keep your stereotypes to yourself. Is that person going to be more or less correct than the average quora answer?
While you are free to examine ideas like femininity and talk about psychological sexual dimorphism all you like, you need to watch your tone and bring evidence in proportion with the inflammatoriness of your claims.
Your comment suggested that AI is essentially a kind of "parrot," and then suggested it is like "a woman," and concluded that "obviously" the answer is going to therefore be "incorrect." Drawing such unflattering inferences, particularly against a general group, falls short of the mark. The substance of your post, such as it was, did not come through as strongly as it needed to, while your apparent disdain for women came through quite clearly. Our rules require you to balance those things more thoughtfully--and kindly.
Maybe I just admire the superior empathy of women? (No, you're right, I don't)
Serious question: Is this an order to cite studies justifying my original statement? Because if I dumped a bunch, it could be seen as more inflammatory and offensive to women, and as me refusing to back down, being belligerent.
If you had cited studies, then you wouldn't have been modded.
@faceh and @Sloot have... cynical opinions about women. But they usually submit substantial arguments to back that up. Usually, I'm not sure if the latter's ban has expired yet.
Hey now, I'm mostly cynical about the larger issue of intersex relations.
I'm quite the fan of women in the abstract and many specific ones that I like a lot, and are great people.
The stats inform my behavior and proposed solutions, but cynicism is reserved for the larger system that I think is sucking everyone dry, and not in the fun way.
Whatever you're doing, you're doing it right, because I see nothing but a dozen AAQCs in the mod log.
DAMNIT.
I'm really not trying to make that my 'thing.' Gotta write about some obscure Floridian political fight or something to make up for it.
oh well.
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