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Culture War Roundup for the week of August 11, 2025

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This is true, but it begs the question. Yes, men and women have different foibles, but how do they compare? How do the standards for men stack up against the standards for women?

As WhiningCoil expresses above, the redpill perspective on women essentially considers them as men's lessers, baser creatures driven primarily by instinct. This is a perspective with strong cultural precedent, and its echoes persist to this day, even in aspirationally egalitarian societies. When feminists keep talking about wanting men and women to be equal, despite their equality before the law and the outright preference shown towards women by our cultural institutions, this is what they mean.

In this way, I'm sympathetic to both feminism and the redpill perspective; I do believe that women are to some extent more childish, instinctual, etc. than men, but I also think that this is a highly unfortunate reality, not something to celebrate or appreciate, and hopefully might be ameliorated by whatever means necessary, social or biological.

I do believe that women are to some extent more childish, instinctual, etc. than men, but I also think that this is a highly unfortunate reality, not something to celebrate or appreciate, and hopefully might be ameliorated by whatever means necessary, social or biological.

See, I'd just call that 'hating women'. I like women. I think it's good they're women.

Imagine someone suggesting that we somehow 'fix' children such that they just start as adults!

Imagine someone suggesting that we somehow 'fix' children such that they just start as adults!

If we regularly expected children to be helicopter pilots, doctors and heads of state, then yes I think them acting like regular children would be a big problem.

If.

You’re the one equating women to children, I’m just pointing out the second-order consequences if that’s true.

I don't think I'm equating them exactly — if there's a spectrum between man and child women are somewhere in between and probably a bit closer to man — but yes I take your point. And yes it's a problem.

But how horrifying is it to hear that, since we must treat women as indistinguishable from men, and since that's clearly untenable, the solution is to abolish women

But how horrifying is it to hear that, since we must treat women as indistinguishable from men, and since that's clearly untenable, the solution is to abolish women‽

This reminds me of a pair of comments on either /r/SSC or /r/TheMotte (sadly I did not save them) where 2 philosophers of the highest kind had a discussion about how consciousness in women was a mistake by evolution. In the ensuing fallout, both comments were deleted, and quite possibly both accounts as well. One of my favorite "elmo watching the nuclear blast" moments.

One was /u/Namrok, I'm pretty sure. No idea who the other guy was. Wish I had been able to save that conversation before it blew up.

I believe you're correct that it was him. Good recall. Truly a shame that no one saved that conversation.