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I used to be Caucasian before being exposed to the merciless heat of the Caledonian countryside?
You joke, but I’ve known some very brown farm labourers. 60 years of all-day tanning with do a lot. Though they were Japanese and not super-pale to start with.
I’ve lost track of the number of medium commercial hvac techs(=roofs, for their entire [long]workdays) I thought were Mexican until they took their shirt off.
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There are very brown secretaries, almost guaranteed to have fake lashes and nail extensions alongside lips that look like an anaphylactic reaction! Scottish beauty standards for women are wack, some of them are more bronzer than water by body weight.
Coco Chanel (the original populariser of the tan) has a lot to answer for.
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Minus the extreme browning, that seems to be the current beauty standard among young German women.
Are they all fake blondes with fake eyebrows, too?
The only real blondes I've seen up here are the Golden Retrievers. They've usually got better, silkier lashes too.
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