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Not if you're schizophrenic it isn't. And the fact you have offered this alternative take makes it impossible for me to believe you believe your first claim, since you are in effect saying that you will make the first claim whether you believe it or not because it is better for society to throw the mentally ill under a bus than it is to be honest about what got him shot (poisonous ideology).
Willingness to consider alternative explanations makes me untrustworthy?
Nice talking to you.
Yeah I would run too. Because it isn't willingness to consider alternative explanations, that is merely a pat justification. You immediately came up with your alternative, in the exact same post as your original, and your alternative is to lie and claim the original explanation. That is what makes you duplicitous. That and your feigned moral outrage while you scramble to throw the mentally ill under the bus.
You are both making shitty arguments, and between @Skibboleth's low-effort dismissiveness, your stooping to personal attacks, and the crappy quality of this thread in general, I am exercising great restraint in not handing out bans even to people who really probably need at least a day or two to go sit in a corner and take deep breaths. So this is your opportunity to back off and take deep breaths voluntarily.
Well it's a good thing I checked my notifications before replying to one of the other lazy attacks on the mentally ill. Why are you bolding voluntarily by the way?
Because the alternative is a ban.
That was always the alternative? You did it to belittle me, to paint my perfectly lucid and even tempered replies as unhinged. Because you had nothing else.
Yes, the alternative to calming down and ceasing your belligerence is a timeout. That is always the alternative.
I do not think you are unhinged. I think you're angry and you're angry-posting. You may think your replies are perfectly lucid and even-tempered. They are not. I'm really trying to cut people some slack right now, but I'm running out of slack.
Alright, Gemini explained that my incredulous shorthand looks the same as anger to an outside observer, and I can see how it reads that way now so I am sorry. I am annoyed though, because I anticipated a mod response, as I do in any interaction with Skibboleth, and Grok cleared both those posts as lucid and even handed before I posted them.
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