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You can have all that already!
Can you?
Can the 55 year old accountant with a bum leg and asthma really be James Bond if he just REALLY tries?
Can he really be Genghis Khan? Would it be wise or even good if he could?
A high-speed car chase in VR is fun and thrilling. In real life, it's tragic and destructive.
But no, people can't have everything they want in life. A big part of growing up for most people, who are ordinary, is coming to terms with and accepting that you are, in fact, not special - and that's ok. You'll never be famous, you'll never make a great scientific discovery, you'll never make a speech that shakes the world, you'll never have 1 second let alone 15 minutes of fame. Hell, for most, you'll never even be an ordinary rich guy. Sure, people shouldn't be complacent and should work to get what they can, but don't pretend that there aren't limits especially for the 50% of the population below the median. Because that's the brutal truth: there is always a bottom half.
Why shouldn't they be allowed some escapism?
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"That's just virtuality, imitation of life. Can AI VR let you truly enjoy adventure? Find romance and fame?"
"Can you?"
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Not the romance, and if you try the rest it usually ends in short order with death, hospitalization, or jail.
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