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Helen Andrews and the Great Feminization
https://www.compactmag.com/article/the-great-feminization/
Some excerpts:
And we wonder why men are dropping out of the workforce/university...
I found the whole essay quite interesting and also somewhat obvious in that 'oh I should've realized this and put it together before' sense. I read somewhere else on twitter that you could track the origins of civil rights/student activism to women gaining full entry to universities in America, as opposed to just chaperoned/'no picnicking out together' kind of limited access. Deans and admin no longer felt they could punish and control like when it was a male environment, plus young men behave very differently when there are sexually available women around. So there's also a potential element of weakened suppression due to fear of female tears and young men simping for women, along with the long-term demographic change element.
Though I suspect it may be more multi-factorial than that, with the youth bulge and a gradual weakening of the old order. A man had to make the decision to let women into universities after all.
I also find Helen Andrews refreshing in that she's not stuck in the 'look at me I'm a woman who's prepared to be anti-feminist, I'm looking for applause and clicks' mould, she makes the reasons behind her article quite clear:
Another idea that occurred to me is that the committee that drafted the United Nations Declaration of Human Rights was chaired by Eleanor Roosevelt, FDR's wife. The UN Declaration of Human Rights was instrumental in establishing what we now understand as progressivism. That piece of international law, (really the origin of 'international law' as we understand it today, beyond just the customary law of embassies) directly led to the Refugee Convention of 1951 that has proven quite troublesome for Europe's migrant crisis, it introduced the principle of non-refoulement. It also inspired the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Racial Discrimination (1965):
Sounds pretty woke! Note that states don't necessarily follow through on international law or sign up with it fully in the first place: Israel, America, Russia and so on routinely ignore these kinds of bodies in the foreign policy sphere. The Conventions and Committees are feminine in a certain sense in that they can be ignored without fear of violence, unlike an army of men. Nevertheless, their urging and clamouring is real and does have an effect, the UN Human Rights Commission helped get sanctions on apartheid South Africa.
To some extent international law could be considered an early feminized field, or perhaps it was born female. Are there any other feminized fields we can easily think of? Therapists, HR and school teachers come to mind, though that seems more recent.
Hanania has a response in which he argues that, while female-dominated institutions may not be sufficiently devoted to truth and consistency, neither are male-dominated ones.
The difference is the concept of "fair play". Men naturally set up games with rules to structure conflict as an alternative to lethal violence. We even see this in males of other distantly related species where fights have a particular formal pattern. There are rules about how to challenge another male, how that challenge is accepted or conceded, and then they may even take turns attempting to intimidate or hurt their opponent. Usually this is all done in public, possibly with an audience. This all occurs in animals following mere instinct, and human males share these instincts. The institutions that allow us to scale up societies beyond their Dunbar number are basically dependent on this undercurrent of "fair play", and women don't really have those same instincts, or at least not as strongly or as often. Female competition is focused on protecting infants, subterfuge, and persuading others to do violence on their behalf. They don't abide by any rules of fair play, and it doesn't come naturally to them. Any institution that depends on fair play norms will not survive being staffed by mostly women unless those women are a highly selected group, but there aren't enough of those women to staff many institutions.
This is not to say that most men are necessarily good or consistent about this either. Most people aren't up to doing most important things, but we just need enough people, not most.
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He's onto something there. Trust-seeking, the "nerd masculine" archetype as described in Hanania's comments, is not actually masculine. It has nothing to do specifically with reproductive strategies for the sex with cheaper gametes. Truth-seeking is genderless, and as the sex with greater variability men have more pressure to exhibit genderless behaviour.
If you evopsychmaxx it could be seen as the nerd genes, not cutting it in a purely caveman-masculine world, finding another way. Instead of being directly appealing, change the world and shape society, so that those like you are more likely to thrive later.
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