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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 27, 2025

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i'm actually wondering whether if a lot of these drama events are actually real or if they have are wholly faked or pre-planned to generate content. one hot tub streamer Amouranth appears to have generated a fake abuse story with the co-operation of her husband.

Amouranth is an apex predator in this environment, its more likely that most of her drama is planned out in advance, since I've yet to see her make any moves that would be very likely to result in legal consequences if they were faked. I.e. there's no 'cost' to faking this stuff, so they probably do fake it.

But I also would be willing to believe that she is instinctively willing to convert ANY source of drama, authentic or no, into further attention, and thus the dysfunction of her and those around her is actually adaptive?

Amouranth is an apex predator

Was curious as to why, Googled it, saw her images, and closed out the tab as my question was answered.

She's a lot more than a pretty face. Consider her early photos. People may think looking good can get a girl far, but unless her ambition is being a trophy wife, that's not true at all. Lot of hard work and scheming involved.

I giggled. Yes, that's about the only impression you need.

Okay, maybe this one, too. (Very SFW, but will induce extreme cringe).

I'd bet a lot of the time it's just a matter of individuals following their incentives. Get into some scandal or high profile beef with someone, create a large sink of free attention, and then that sink of attention gets divvied out to the participants, using whatever eldritch rules determine such things.

How consciously faked it is is almost besides the point--it's 100% fake parasocial engagement through and through, and probably the best adapted parasites are the ones that're able to convince even themselves that it's real.

I'd bet a lot of the time it's just a matter of individuals following their incentives.

Safest bet imaginable. Identify the incentives, I'll explain and predict the behavior.