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Small-Scale Question Sunday for November 23, 2025

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

This is your opportunity to ask questions. No question too simple or too silly.

Culture war topics are accepted, and proposals for a better intro post are appreciated.

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I am not sure who to believe because in my area (very red state with a lot of Mormon and Evangelical presence) there are virtually no presence of groypers or groyper-adjacent propagandists, as far as I could see, but I am not sure who to believe about what happens in DC - and what happens in DC may have much more influence on the national politics.

I'd like to read Ross Douthat's view on that (link?) but I think it won't be able to convince me, on this stage, that groypers aren't a problem for Republicans. I may be very wrong on the size and importance of that problem, but it is the problem nevertheless. And it's not only a problem from my POV (which is obvious - I am not going to vote for a politician that genuinely considers me subhuman evil monster, whatever other position he could hold, I am only a human and have my limits) but from purely practical purpose - most of the normies won't flock to a platform that enables edgelords so far out of the consensus. At least unless they have something very attractive to offer, which groypers don't. And, also, if you want to bank all in on hating the Joos, there is enough competition to vote for on the other side, so you don't have any advantage even if you embrace that oldest of all low roads. Maybe if they ignore them enough they'd just wither away. Why couldn't we get lucky just this time?

Like everything else with Zoomers, this is all online. I’m not sure you would see a visible Groyper presence anywhere, no matter how much support there is.

Also the types of Christian conservatism pushed by actual God-fearing Christians (including Mormons) tend to be an antidote against some of the nuttier online stuff. The stereotypical right-idiotarian ticks the "Christian" box on the census but attends church at most three times a year.

The stereotypical right-idiotarian

I'll cop to being one of the people under discussion but this just seems like a boo-light to me. If you have actual specific arguments against right-identitarianism then make it by all means make them, but in the nicest possible way this seems like heat for the sake of it.

Uh, do you attend church regularly?

Not really, as I said. I mean to but when Sunday rolls around somehow ‘get up and spend an hour and ten minutes sitting still and being quiet’ never quite gets onto the todo list.

I’m not disputing Monzer’s point, but I dislike people throwing around silly slurs of ‘libtard’ and ‘right-idiotarian’. It’s not an argument, it’s a boo-light, and although I am not a mod I believe it is against the rules and not what the Motte is for.

Ah, I misread that as 'right-identitarian' and was wondering what you were up in arms about. My mistake.

To address the object point, I think one reason right-identarians tend not to go to Church very much isn’t hypocrisy so much as the lack of the invisible infrastructure that gets most Catholics into church. When you have no Christian friends (nearby), no muscle memory from long practice and you’re not integrated into the social scene, church is largely a chore.

Lots of us are intellectual/aesthetic converts hoping for faith to come some day, rather than suddenly being seized by faith on the road to Damascus, and that makes weekly Mass difficult.

I like the first half of Mass very much - the readings and the sermons are full of intellectual meat to get my teeth into - but the second half is the same litany and prayers every single time followed by fifteen minutes of shuffling people about for the sake of a ceremony I’m not actually allowed to participate in. In theory I register the weight of it, but in practice doing it every week is interminable.

Your reaction to the above may well be a justified ‘get thee hence, Satan!’ but just giving the less appreciated side of the story. And any advice would be appreciated, of course.

I mean the question is ‘do you want to join the church or not?’. There’s not really an in between here; you can’t have it both ways.

If you want to join the church then you should get to know your fellow parishioners(I’m not familiar with the dynamics of parishes in the UK, but in the USA my recommendation would be a parish-associated men’s group that meets in evenings, they’re usually fairly normie tier based and have a decent representation of all ages over 21- not all retirees), read a gospel all the way through, and have a routine of personal prayer while you work on weekly attendance. You’ll find it easier. If you don’t, then I’m not sure why you’re bothering?