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Good luck making a list of hardcore porn performers who notably go on to successful, fulfilling mainstream careers with stable relationships into middle age and beyond.
There's maybe a couple who quietly retired from the public eye and live on a ranch somewhere.
On the male side you have perhaps literally ONLY Ron Jeremy. And he's come to an extremely ignominious end.
EDIT: Wait, I forgot Sylvester Stallone. But he didn't have a very long adult career and it was softcore so I am comfortable discounting him.
Most of them that try to do something in the mainstream end up flaming out.
In no small part because there's a lot of other vices that tend to surround that particular career path, and you'll have very few respectable allies in your corner if you stumble.
Remember that one State-level Democratic candidate who had filmed sex acts for a Cam site? She lost.
The one porn actress I ever heard of going on to a mainstream career was Marilyn Chambers, and she seems to have ended up going back to porn eventually (but also some independent movies).
Traci Lords did. Not a great career, but definitely a career.
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